When Parents Give Money to One Child, Not Another
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Some parents give money to one child but not to other children. This is called financial favoritism. It can make children feel bad. They feel angry or sad. This bad feeling can last for many years. Even when children grow up, they remember.
Why Does This Happen?
Parents may give money for different reasons. One child may need money more. One child may ask for money. One child may live closer to the parents. Parents may think one child is more responsible. But children do not always understand these reasons.
How Does It Feel?
When a child does not get money but a brother or sister does, they feel hurt. They think their parents like the other child more. They feel jealous. They may get angry at their brother or sister. This can break families apart.
What Can Parents Do?
Experts say parents should talk to all their children. Parents should explain their choices. They should be fair and clear. If one child gets help, parents should tell the others why. Good communication helps everyone understand.
What Can Children Do?
Adult children can talk with their parents about money. They can ask questions. They can listen to their parents' reasons. Sometimes talking helps fix bad feelings. Families can become closer again.
Discussion Questions
- Do you think parents should give money to all children equally? Why or why not?
- Have you seen favoritism in a family? How did it make people feel?
- What should a child do if they feel their parents favor a brother or sister?
- How can parents explain to children why they help one child more than another?
- What can families do to stop bad feelings about money and favoritism?
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