Hedging is the language of permission-seeking — and it quietly makes senior people sound junior. 'I just wanted to quickly ask if maybe...' undercuts your authority before you've made your point. Here's what to cut and what to say instead.
The hedges to cut
'Just,' 'quickly,' 'a little,' 'I might be wrong, but,' 'does that make sense?,' 'sorry to bother you.' Each one signals you're not sure you have the right to speak. Senior people don't ask permission to contribute.
Confident replacements
'I just wanted to ask...' becomes 'I have a question.' 'This might be wrong, but...' becomes 'Here's my view.' 'Does that make sense?' becomes 'I'm happy to expand on any of that.' Same politeness, far more authority.
Politeness without shrinking
Frequently asked questions
What hedging language makes me sound junior?
Words like 'just,' 'quickly,' 'sorry to bother you,' and 'does that make sense?' that seek permission to speak.
What should I say instead?
Direct versions — 'I have a question,' 'Here's my view,' 'Happy to expand.'
Isn't hedging just being polite?
You can be polite without shrinking — direct and kind reads as senior.
How do I break the habit?
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