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How to Handle Objections Calmly

Objections aren't attacks — they're information, and how you handle them decides whether you build agreement or a standoff. Here's how to handle objections calmly and turn them into progress.

Digby R. Kerr
By Digby R. Kerr — Wharton MBA, author of 12 books, founder of Kerr University™. 35+ years leading global business.

Welcome it, don't fight it

Meet objections with openness: 'That's a fair point — tell me more.' Getting defensive escalates; genuine curiosity lowers the temperature and often reveals the real concern behind the objection.

Find the concern underneath

Objections are often surface-level. 'It's too expensive' might really mean 'I'm not sure it'll work.' Ask questions to find the true concern, then address that — solving the stated objection alone rarely works.

Address it, then move forward

Once you understand the real concern, address it honestly and check: 'Does that resolve it for you?' Then move forward. Handling objections calmly and thoroughly builds more trust than never being challenged at all.

Frequently asked questions

How do I handle objections calmly?

Welcome the objection, find the real concern underneath it, address that honestly, then move forward.

Should I fight objections?

No — welcoming them with curiosity lowers the temperature and reveals the real issue.

What if the stated objection isn't the real one?

Ask questions to find the true concern; solving the surface objection alone rarely works.

How can I get better at this?

Book a free 30-minute class to work on it 1-on-1 with Digby R. Kerr.

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